You believe that your partner is "the problem" in your relationship, that it's only your partner who needs to change...and you aren't willing to change your perspective, or learn about yourself.

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You are looking for an opportunity to assert your belief systems, or are otherwise not in a posture of learning and curiousity.

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You are too comfortable with your current life experience and circumstances (despite any perceived misery) to implement true change and radical honesty including: choosing to be soft and kind towards yourself, feeling sensations in your body, working to uncover your emotional truth, confronting the survival strategies you have been using in life to get your needs met, or taking a new shape with your body.

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You are unwilling to practice somatic experiences or tools, to share from an open heart, to be honest with yourself and your partner, to be coached and corrected to help you become aware of your blind spots, or to otherwise participate in the Third Way Method building blocks that are designed to get you results.

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You believe that healing from trauma, abuse, or childhood wounds should happen quickly, overnight if not sooner, or that 1 session should instantly heal and fix all of your pain. Or, if you believe it is my job to "fix" your pain.

 

You over-identify with labels and boxes such as, "love avoidant" or "narcissist" or "anxious attached" or "fractured psyche" or "addict" or "depression" or "bipolar" etc. and you aren't willing to learn about the root wounds and needs behind these behaviors.

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You believe that all unwanted patterns of behavior are demonic possession.

 

You don't believe you need to take personal responsibility for your life, and you want others to change first, or to see you, to understand you, to validate you, or to take the blame for your lack of results...and you are unwilling to begin to take a stance of power and self-responsibility to create the change and freedom you crave.

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You believe that it's your partner's job to meet your needs...and you are unwilling to budge in your attempts to "get" them to do so.

 

You need speakers/leaders/mentors/coaches to be "perfect" or "enlightened," and to not share personal stories and anecdotes from their life, or to get raw and personal...and you're unwilling to de-pedestalize them.

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You demand trigger warnings or you do not feel safe and become dis-regulated with an inability to re-regulate yourself.

 

You believe that you are a victim of life...and you are unwilling to become empowered as a co-creator of your story.

 

You believe that women should always be subservient or submissive to men, and men are the leaders and authority of the home, and you do not wish to see or learn a new perspective or paradigm.

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Talking about sexuality, and genitals, and body parts, and using words such as "penetrate" or "ejaculate" triggers you...and you are unwilling or not ready to move through the trigger.

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You don't believe in spiritual influences, entities, and ancestrally inherited behaviors, wounds, and programs...and you aren't open to a new perspective. You believe everything you experience is your fault.

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If the word "patriarchy" triggers you and you are unable to self-regulate. I use the term, "old paradigm" but for reference I will also use the term "patriarchy" since this is the globally recognized label currently being used.

If any of the above apply to you, this container is not for you.

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This container is for the couples who accept their power, and know they are destined for greatness. It's for those who are willing to do whatever Love requires of them, to go wherever Love would take them.

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It's for those who are ready to unwind the survival strategies from childhood and dismantle those of their ancestors, and claim the intimacy, radiance, trust, pleasure, and freedom they know in their bones is their birthright.