DEPTH
1:1 Coaching Program
This is for the man who is ready to meet his depths.
This is for the man who is truly ready to be initiated into the depth of their being as a masculine man, and leader.
I designed this program to take you INTO YOUR DEPTHS, in my gentle, down-to-earth, and persistent way.
Sound familiar?
✔ feeling "stuck" in life and hesitant to take the next step for fear of getting it wrong
✔ feeling "suffocated" in relationships as if you can never have enough space, and yet often feeling isolated and lonely
✔ feeling overwhelmed and out of control emotionally
✔ poor boundaries, feeling guilty when needing to take time for yourself
✔ you struggle with commitment, or tend to leave the leadership to your partner in relationship
✔ thinking women are emotionally unstable, can't be trusted and are irrational
✔ avoiding real vulnerability, not knowing how to share your depths from a grounded place
✔ stuck in your head, wheels turning, dealing with anxiety and/or overwhelm
✔ not knowing how to express your sexual needs within relationship, not knowing how to handle hers
✔ overdelivering, over-performing, always doing doing doing or, under-performing and underdelivering, feeling aimless and purposeless
✔ struggle with "nice guy" syndrome or "good guy" conditioning, and/or are constantly being friendzoned
✔ feeling like you are something that needs to be fixed, feeling like nothing "works" for you
✔ going from numb and checked-out to being overly connected and hyper empathetic
✔ feeling like "less than a man"
✔ have a repressed (or shamed) history of physical abuse, or sexual trauma
✔ struggling with porn addiction, and/or erectile dysfunction, either feeling like you're losing attraction to women or feeling like you can't control your sexual impulses and urges
✔ constantly blame-shifting and making other people responsible for your freedom
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...and would probably never admit to any of these out loud in conversation with friends or buddies...until you finally got desperate.
Learn to embody your inner leader, while being open to the ebb and flow of the feminine.
Be able to look a woman deep in the eyes,
and hold her gaze with confidence and unwavering presence.
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Watch the women in your life begin to trust you not just as a confidant, or friend,
but as a lover and alpha male.
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Learn to revere the feminine within yourself, and around you. Heal the wounds and ways women have failed you and castrated you.
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Drop from being stuck in your head on the wheel of unending escapism into your primal body and wild masculine energy.
Take a proactive approach to life and relationships, gain clarity on what you desire and go after it with assertive confidence.
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Rebuild trust within yourself that you are trust-worthy. Break free from addictions and habits that hinder your success and abundance.
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Learn to create chemistry with your woman that allows her to feel safe within your grounded strength so she can freely surrender into your tender heart, while you ravish her passionately and bring her the pleasure her body longs for.
You are not broken. Your masculinity is welcome here.
I felt completely disconnected from my masculine energy. I was struggling with chronic porn and masturbation, and feeling like I wasn’t a man or enough to be a man.
Prior to working with Amanda, I struggled with feeling less than a man. I struggled with chronic porn and masturbation routinely that I knew deep down wasn’t good for me but didn’t know how to stop. I had a major disconnect from my sexual energy and had no idea how to get it back. My sessions with Amanda changed my life for the better. Not only have I stopped watching porn and masturbating, I’ve become the man I always wanted to be. Amanda taught me how to reconnect with my masculine energy and use it as a force for positive and creative change within myself and the world. Amanda is genuine, empathetic and couldn’t have asked for a better mentor to guide me through this transformation. Men would benefit greatly from working one-on-one with her.
Can’t recommend her enough.
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-- CL, Entrepreneur and Business Owner
San Diego, California
Do it for you.
Do it for your legacy.
Don't change for her, for the boost in income that comes with knowing how to ask for what you want, for the fame that may come with increased confidence, for the sexual satisfaction that follows mastering your sexual energy...do it for your legacy, and for those who follow in your leadership who will be forever impacted by knowing you: a man of integrity,
and a man of DEPTH.
The Program:
Fathom 1
The anatomy of a M.A.N.
Rewriting and rewiring all things masculine and what it means to be a man. The ways you were conditioned to show up, the ways you desire to show up, What does YOUR authentic masculinity look like without the wounds, traumas, programs, and outside voices? Life on your terms, finally.
Fathom 2
Masculine Depth
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Your deepest work will be found within. Your greatest fears, challenges, and power live here in your depths. We will focus on integration, on cultivating presence, and strengthening boundaries. We will build internal safety and direction, and the ability to ground down into your primal body.
Fathom 3
Conscious Sexuality
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We will begin cultivating a sense of mastery over your sexual energy, and sexual needs. Who are you as a sexual man apart from anyone else, any relationship outside of the one with yourself, and outside of the bedroom? What happens when you wield your sexuality with integrity, and embody your cock with consciousness?
Sailors use a tool called a lead line, which is essentially a lead weight attached to a rope or cable, that is marked every 6 feet. This length of 6 feet is called a fathom. A crew member would then throw the line into the water, and once the lead weight reached the bottom the sailor would measure and record the distance to the ocean floor in fathoms.
Fathom 4
Inward Energetics
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You have both masculine and feminine energetics within you. We will dive into building capacity within you to hold your own feminine energy. This looks like deepening your relationship with your masculine energy, and healing your relationship with your feminine energy.
Fathom 5
The Self-Led Man
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Masculine leadership, what it is and how it looks to lead from your masculine heart versus your wounded "inner boy." Becoming your own authority, and honing your voice and confidence. Your power will be felt. Vision, clarity, and purpose.
Fathom 6
Polarity
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Learn how to interact with your woman in such a way that she feels safe enough to open to you. This is where the lion gets his teeth back, and the wolf gets his balls back. Uncastrate yourself and learn how to create chemistry with the woman you love and desire.
What if it was safe for you to trust the feminine, on your journey into deeper masculine wholeness and embodiment?
Both the masculine and the feminine are revered here.
I don't have to minimize or condemn the feminine to support your masculine evolution.
I don't have to criticize and emasculate the masculine to support your integration of the feminine.
We do neither here.
This is a body-based program. Rather than focusing on your mindset and getting you to change your thinking, we focus on changing your body and chemistry so that your mindset and thinking will naturally follow.
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This is a trauma informed and trauma conscious container. I am certified in somatic trauma therapies and though I will NOT coddle or mother you, I will allow the pace to go no faster than your nervous system can sustain. We aren't hustling and forcing results, we are aiming for longevity and sustainability.
(Think: investment into a quality leather couch versus a deal on a pleather sofa type of deal.)
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During every "fathom" or month of the program, we will be experimenting with different flavors and expressions of the masculine as you create your own version of the "alpha male" and what that means to you.
The Details:
We meet every 2 weeks, and you will schedule and sync the calendar of sessions into your calendar seamlessly through the online portal.
Each session is 90-120 minutes. The program consists of 6 "initiations" or "fathoms" that will be worked through and completed In between each session. You will have access to the program materials through your online portal.
Each initiation will take you deeper into your masculine depths, and during our intensive 2 hour calls we will be engaging in deep experiential work together.
This may include but is not limited to:
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Somatic Movement
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Breathwork
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Inner Alchemy Work
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Guided Meditations
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Polarity Practices
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Masculine/Feminine Energy Work
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Sound Healing
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Inner Child Work
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Existential Kink
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"Shadow Walking"
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Self Reflection
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Ice Bathing
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Masculine Archetypal Embodiment
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Herbal Support for the modern masculine
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And more…
NOTE: You will also have extensive support from me in between each session via Voxer.
This means if you have a question, an immediate issue or problem requiring attention or an important share, we get to work with it in “real-time” where you can voice message, or message me.
This support is invaluable for our 1:1 coaching and your journey as things WILL be shifting and alchemizing the deeper you go into the program.
This program is NOT for the faint of heart.
The investment:
Pay in Full
$10,000 USD
3 Month Plan
$3,555 USD / Month
6 Month Plan
$1,777.00 USD / Month
12 Month Plan
$888 USD / Month
Those who want more:
Meet with me in person for an intensive 1:1 Deep Dive together and begin integrating before we start your 1:1 sessions, and the program.
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Your choice of options below:
All-In Deep Dive Weekend
Have time to integrate in between sessions, and experience somatic practices in person including but not limited to: breathwork, masculine/feminine energy and polarity workshops, energy healing, and somatic trauma release.
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By application only.
Saturday Double Intensive
Meet with me twice in a day for two intensive sessions. Morning sessions are spent going deep into trauma release, and afternoon sessions are tailored towards polarity and masculine embodiment. Rest and integrate between sessions.
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By application only.
Sunday Afternoon Session
Want to address some of your trauma or blocks in person with me? Book an afternoon session with me to journey together for an afternoon into somatic trauma practices to bring instant breakthrough and release. A great way to kick off The Depth Program.
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By application only.
Results
I felt completely disconnected from my masculine energy. I was struggling with chronic porn and masturbation, and feeling like I wasn’t a man or enough to be a man.
Prior to working with Amanda, I struggled with feeling less than a man. I struggled with chronic porn and masturbation routinely that I knew deep down wasn’t good for me but didn’t know how to stop. I had a major disconnect from my sexual energy and had no idea how to get it back. My sessions with Amanda changed my life for the better. Not only have I stopped watching porn and masturbating, I’ve become the man I always wanted to be. Amanda taught me how to reconnect with my masculine energy and use it as a force for positive and creative change within myself and the world. Amanda is genuine, empathetic and couldn’t have asked for a better mentor to guide me through this transformation. Men would benefit greatly from working one-on-one with her.
Can’t recommend her enough.
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-- CL, Entrepreneur and Business Owner
San Diego, California
I was looking for answers to help me reconnect with my sexual energy and learn how to feel whole again.
The wealth of knowledge and compassion Amanda has could not be found in any book or course. The 1-on-1 coaching and attention was literally life changing. I felt heard, understood and challenged to grow in many areas. I couldn’t have asked for anyone else to guide me through this journey.
What he will gain as a man by working with Amanda is truly priceless. Not only personally but how it’ll positively affect all his relationships in the present and future.
It’s been a complete transformation in 6 short months. I haven’t only reconnected with myself and my masculine energy, I feel strongly that I’m a man of value and stand on solid ground. I’ve learned to appreciate and value my sexual energy and use it as a positive force in my life. I stopped watching porn altogether and stopped masturbating too. I’m in such a healthier place mentally and feel well equipped to handle the challenges life throws at me. Lastly, I have deep conviction and trust in myself that I never had before. I can for the first time actually truly trust my own word and know that I will not let myself or others down. Through the process of learning to keep my word starting with myself, I’ve grown to understand self-empowerment and how I can now show up for others in the same way. One last thing, I’ve learned so much about relationships and how to lead as a man. I have the capacity to develop a healthy relationship now and stop my old patterns of being attracted to unavailable love.
Porn 2 to 4 times per week before working with Amanda.
Now zero and don’t miss it.
There have been so many aha moments. The one that’s the freshest is when we talked about how sexual energy is creative energy. It’s such a different way to see it which opens up so many more possibilities to using this energy. It isn’t boxed in the bedroom but I can now see how it has different applications in life.
About Amanda
Integrative Somatic Trauma Therapy Practitioner,
Embodiment and Polarity Coach
CEO of The Bare Feminine LLC,
Founder/Herbalist at The Soulful Apothecary,
Breathworker and Meditation Instructor,
Creatress of Sexual Embodiment,
Rewilded Birth Holistic Birth Keeper (Doula)
CEO/Photographer at Embodied Boudoir
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